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A small incident that i came across last week when i was on my way to my native ...

                People say that India will be developed in 2020 or so... but what sort of a development would that be ??? I seriously doubt.. Will that be in grounds of Business or Education or Culture or Complete Independence or in wat ???????????????? I am seriously worried wat is gonna happen... Thinking in a deep perspective more than a lay man's point of view its very vague...

           Two dazz bk, i had been to my native, it was a very tiresome journey. Since the following day was a weekend , i had to get inside a crowded bus. It was maximum filled with ppl belonging to the IT sector only...

I realised Chennai is so crowded and drawn below grounds only because of the moving population(the IT's). I somehow managed to get a place for me to stand comfortably where as i saw many ppl clinging on to the footboard. It was pathetic.. The number of lives just a step behind accident... :(

         The bus went in a very slow pace... It made me very irritated. it was a railway crossing and we had to stop by for a few minutes . i saw many ppl rushing near the bus selling snacks and cucumbers. They were all in torn dresses and very sad... They buy them for 5 rs ... sell it for 7rs... How far ll this 2 rs help them out ??

When many ppl spend lyf enjoying in malls and theatres, why is the other half standing under the hot sun and shattering their lives into pieces???

When ll all this end ???

ll it when robots cum to work in fields ???

is it when robots do work of servants at home ?

is it when all the ppl under poverty line cum up ??

When ll we make our city clean ???

is it all a task of 10 yrs...

Definitly not ...

When ll this all end yup ???? A million dollar question i know...

And finally when the train had passed by, our bus moved out of that place leaving the vendors in distress as no body turned up to buy those cucumbers... When i had reached tindivanam, I had to get shifted to a bus to continue my journey. The bus was pretty empty since I reached well before...

I  got into my seat and settled very comfortably. In ten mins or so, the bus became heavily crowded and ppl hardly had no air to breathe. Still the ppl were rushing in. Then the conductor asked the gents to climb on top of the bus...I was really shocked !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wat!!! On top of the bus!!!

Wt if someone falls???

I saw a pair running fast to catch the crowded bus...

They must be in their early-thirties... Yet struggling to run, they made it ...

When they were almost near, the lady felt it very difficult to get inside... Her husband got just pushed and pulled others and got inside the bus...

The lady decided not to board the bus and she went few steps away from the bus ...

Then  happened the incident... KNOW WAT??????

The husband just got out of the bus ; ran to her and just Slapped her infront of everybody ....SMACK!!!!

i got the shock of my lyf... Wat ll that poor lady do ???

She never spoke a word back... He pulled her into the bus...

He was so arrogant ... So uneducated... Almost a person with worst behaviour ...

When ll all such things stop??? I really feel pity for that lady who has her boundaries fixed by that dumb fellow..

Will ppl say our country is developed when the mentality of this man changes???

Shud he be punished for such activity ??

When ll he know wat he is doing is wrong??

Is that the rules of that lady's life ???

I just wonder when ll all these things bcum proper ...

So many questions are unanswered ????

Who gets blamed for this ???

Misconduct of people ?

Poverty ?

Literacy Rate ?

Governance ?

Or what ????????

A Sense on Gifts...

Any Occasion... Anything .. When we wanna express our care and affection on our beloved ones, we make them very happy by choosing gifts...

Gifts show the love you have for them...

On my experience with lyf so far and the tastes of different ppl whom i have met and comparing with flavours of incidents and accidents and occasions , I would suggest some common gifts for loved ones.

• If you have a CAR, yu can place some nice decorations inside it. Keep some nice wall hangings inside the car... Pack ur gift in such a way that you can hide it below the seat or keep it somewhere hidden... Place the cake in the back seat . Paint some nice tiny tiny paintings of urs(may be some small hearts painted red in chart) expressing ur love to him/her. Let the music play in mild volume in the car.  Set all the things ryt the last night itself. The next day, when ur love opens the car, he/she will be so excited and ll find the day simply amazing. Just drop in and have a ride . Go to a hilly place (lonely place) and give a hug and say "Happy Birthday". That can be the best moment of one's lyf... Both of you will feel very happy... Cut the Cake there and share ur time together.This can be the best among the birthdays one has celebrated. :) 
• A case of one who has got his/her engagement done(Arranged Marriage). The best gift in this case would be a diary, wher one can write bout oneself and give it to his/her lyf tym companion. Write bout the way you felt when you met him for the first tym :) . Wht sort of a experience that was ... It is the most awesome period of lyf.. Any one in that situation would definitly love that gift.
• A case of one who has got his/her engagement done(Arranged Marriage). Another wonderful gift would the "Counting Cards". Just count the number of days that are left for your marriage. Make that many number of small small cards in chart. Use simple sketch pens to tell ur partner a thing everyday.Just write nice moments or write something you wish for him or write some reminders for him that has to be done b4 marriage. If there are 70 days left for ur marriage, make 70 little cards for ur partner to open one daily and make the count down get faster. This ll make ur partner very happy... It ll be as though u r living with him/her daily. 

                    The period of life between engagement and marriage is the most exciting and happiest moments in one's lyf which ll neva get back. Give gifts that have ur involvement compared to the ones purchased from the retail shops. It ll show the love you have for him/her and make it even more deeper. . . 

• Make ur house decorative. Arrange candles in the entire hall... everywhere so that it gives you enuf light. Invite ur partner's friends and get them home even b4 ur partner gets bk from office. Keep the door open and let the lights be switched off when he comes into the house during his bday... Once he enters let his friends shout their wishes for him and you go with a hand full of roses and wish him...

That would be a marvellous birthday ever celebrated... A person will alwazz tend to/be forced to reduce his contacts with friends due to his heavy schedule after marriage. But that does not mean he/she has forgotten his friends altogether. Its just that they have no tym. They'll alwazz be longint to meet each other and spend tym talking bout the memories. If a better half of a person, plans for it, there is no other thing that would make him/her happy. The best moment is when ur better half starts becuming friends of ur friends... Those moments wud be awesome. It shows that you care of each an every tiny thing of  ur partner's....

Just a start with my ideas... ll keep it posting now and then... Thanks for ur precious time spent for reading ...

A start with a Good Occasion I would say

I never had an idea of writing a blog...
And am like not aware like how many ll at least spend a second here ...


One day in soliloquy, i had umpteen thoughts running in my mind...
And i planned to share it with everyone and then the idea of a blog struck me...

yes... Once i created the outline of my blog, i was just thinking bout my first post and then came the thought of a friend who had her birthday the following day...

And here i take a chance to wish her  as my first post ....

Here I go...
(do bare with me... this is my first post)

"Happy Birthday to Narmatha"

------- A person with whom my friendship is goodly goodly strong yet very young :)
Kudos to her friendship...
A smiling face and a loving heart is alwazz i wish for her ...
Long Life an happy life to you my dear...
My prayers alwazz with you in every stage of life :)
Sketch ur path as you wish :) :)